Not Just A Blonde

We are "Not Just" who we seem to be on this Earthly plane, but so much more. We are ALL children of a loving God who is calling us home to Love. This blog is dedicated to those of us on that journey together…

Do you have needs? Do you know what they are? πŸ€”πŸ’œ I’m not even sure what it means to have needs but I do know that recognizing them and unashamedly getting them met is an important component of self-love and validation of self-worth. Why haven’t I ever thought about this before? πŸ’œ I have had …

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Free yourself to be yourself! I’m in a place where I am trying to embrace my uniqueness. I’m letting go of the need to be understood or liked.  There is a freedom with this. A freedom that allows me to dance to my own rhythm and find my own special place in this big beautiful …

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We each have treasures tucked inside our hearts and inside our minds. As we discover these treasures inside each of us, even as we uncover them within ourselves, we experience the joy of discovery and the awe of authentic existence.  Each of us are brilliantly unique. We are each carrying something within us that cannot …

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Love. ❀️ It’s why we are here. It is what we have each been called to do above anything else. Love our neighbors, love our enemies, love our family, love our friends… love ourselves.  Who are we to stand in the way of love? πŸ’› Who are we to dictate how others are called to …

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Self-reflection is one of the most valuable gifts we can give to ourselves. Most of us are too scared to do it! Yet, what are we scared of? Most likely it is the fear that if we look closely enough we won’t like what we see… or that we will discover we are unlovable and …

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There is something quite freeing when we let go of the need to always be liked. Often if we are not liked it has more to do with the other person than anything we have done. Are we always going to act perfect and never do anything that upsets another? Absolutely not! But, everyone is …

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“It is better to be hated for what you are than loved for what you are not.” ~ AndrΓ© Gide We often hide our authentic selves as we fear judgement and rejection. The world describes what is acceptable, lovable and beautiful and we scramble to hide those parts of us that fall outside of these …

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Most of life’s unhappiness occurs when we forget who we really are. We aren’t our bodies, our clothes, our jobs, nor our circumstances. We are spirits… we are children of a Loving Eternal God! When we make choices that are not in-line with our true identity and purpose we will often find ourselves lost, alone …

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We can indeed embrace our Christian Faith and our sexuality without conflict or compromise! God created us to live and love in our own unique way… and this uniqueness need not be denied but celebrated! God loves us as we are! He created each of us to love and be loved as we are and …

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