Not Just A Blonde

We are "Not Just" who we seem to be on this Earthly plane, but so much more. We are ALL children of a loving God who is calling us home to Love. This blog is dedicated to those of us on that journey together…

You can’t see how far you’ve come if you aren’t aware of where you’ve started. ✨✨ Sometimes you gotta sit down in the middle of your mess and look around. I mean really take it all in. Get your camera and take pictures.πŸ“Έ Get some paper and take notes. πŸ“  Find a canvas and paint …

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We have the power to change our lives simply by changing ourselves. ✨❀️✨ Change yourself, change your life. You’ve heard it and it’s true. It’s the changing ourselves that is the hard part. Denial, fear, or just plain lack of insight keep us stuck in patterns of behavior and thoughts that perpetuate our unhappiness.  How …

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It’s easy to be happy when everyone around you is happy. It takes great strength and resolve to maintain happiness when surrounded by sadness and negativity. If we depend on others to bring it to us we will find ourselves at the whim of others moods and emotions. Happiness is best found from within.  Happiness …

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Shhhhh, already! Quiet that voice that hates you… you know, the one that goes on (and on, and on…) about how much you suck. The one that rubs into your face your imperfections, and minimizes your value and worth. The one that tells lies just because it can.  Silence that voice… tell it firmly to …

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We all get fearful and discouraged sometimes. It is natural to pull into ourselves and withdraw a bit as we protect our hearts and heal our wounds. Yet, we must always remember the source of true healing comes from a Source beyond our self-limiting illusions. When things get you down it is indeed best to …

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What you look for you will find. It all depends on what you are looking for. If you are looking to find a reason to be angry you will find it. If you are looking for a reason to be sad, you will find this as well.  The good news is if you focus your …

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We each have treasures tucked inside our hearts and inside our minds. As we discover these treasures inside each of us, even as we uncover them within ourselves, we experience the joy of discovery and the awe of authentic existence.  Each of us are brilliantly unique. We are each carrying something within us that cannot …

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Taking care of yourself, nurturing yourself, & assuring your basic needs are met is not a selfish act! The healthier and happier we are the better equipped we are to love others. So go ahead, love yourself! Remember: loving yourself does not mean you place your value above others… but it doesn’t place you below …

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God, help me see what stuff is mine, see what stuff is theirs and to help me to carry my own stuff. Amen. Helping someone with their stuff is good as long as we remember it is their stuff. I’m not talking material needs here, I’m talking Spiritual and Emotional. We can be empathetic without …

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By loving yourself and valuing yourself you open yourself up to the life you were created to live. You must value yourself enough to take note of your gifts and your strengths, to truly look at your good. It is only after appreciating what you have that you can offer it unto the world. This …

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