Not Just A Blonde

We are "Not Just" who we seem to be on this Earthly plane, but so much more. We are ALL children of a loving God who is calling us home to Love. This blog is dedicated to those of us on that journey together…


Free yourself to be yourself!
I’m in a place where I am trying to embrace my uniqueness. I’m letting go of the need to be understood or liked. 

There is a freedom with this. A freedom that allows me to dance to my own rhythm and find my own special place in this big beautiful world that we call home. 

Not everyone will “get” me… nor will I always “get” them, but that doesn’t mean one of us is right and the other is wrong. It just means we shine a different hue. And that’s okay. The most beautiful thing about life is how it is filled with many colors. 

Be yourself and you can learn to love yourself. Love yourself and you can better love others. Love on.



My heart aches for the family and loved ones of those lost in this senseless tragedy. May we all send love and prayers their way as they try to come to terms with such an inconceivable act. Fear and hate will not have the last word. Love on. 



What you look for you will find. It all depends on what you are looking for. If you are looking to find a reason to be angry you will find it. If you are looking for a reason to be sad, you will find this as well. 
The good news is if you focus your thoughts on things you are grateful for you will feel both gratitude and contentment. If you focus on love you will find more love in your life as well, both to give and to receive. 
This truth has been tested time and time again and yet we continue to fight it. It seems easier to place the blame for our misery and unhappiness outside of ourselves on people and things we cannot control. Yes, the truth is what we focus on will bring more of that, whatever “that” is, into our lives. Whatever is on our inside  is reflected back. We create these things as we are ones that are holding the mirror of our lives. 
Truly, we will find what we are looking for every single time. ❤️Ann


We each have treasures tucked inside our hearts and inside our minds. As we discover these treasures inside each of us, even as we uncover them within ourselves, we experience the joy of discovery and the awe of authentic existence. 
Each of us are brilliantly unique. We are each carrying something within us that cannot be duplicated identically by another. By uncovering these hidden gifts and spiritual treasures we can see what little piece of heaven we have been entrusted to bring unto this life… and how we are called to Love. 

Embrace the adventure of self-discovery! This spiritual journey called life will be enriched all the more for it! 

Love on.



Taking care of yourself, nurturing yourself, & assuring your basic needs are met is not a selfish act! The healthier and happier we are the better equipped we are to love others. So go ahead, love yourself! Remember: loving yourself does not mean you place your value above others… but it doesn’t place you below them either. Love on.❤️Ann


Love. ❤️ It’s why we are here. It is what we have each been called to do above anything else. Love our neighbors, love our enemies, love our family, love our friends… love ourselves. 

Who are we to stand in the way of love? 💛 Who are we to dictate how others are called to love within their Divine purpose? 
Humility demands we release our judgements and fears and open our heart to others… however different they love or however different they are from ourselves. 💚

If you think a form of love is wrong then it is not your path. 💙 God has called you to love differently. If you feel uncomfortable or uneasy about how someone is loving (we are talking true love here, not one of its impostor expressions) it does NOT mean that it is wrong… it is just wrong for you. And that’s okay. 
You can support love without understanding it yourself. 💜 You can be on the side of love without being called to participate in all of loves forms and paths. 

I support love and all who love. I believe this world would be a better place if we celebrated diversity in love’s expression. God created us unique for a reason… just like a rainbow with all its colors… Love shows it’s beauty when all of Love’s colors are free to shine! 


We all have voices in our head… some of the voices tell us lies… and yet another speaks through truth and with love. I don’t need to tell you which voices lead to death… and which one leads us to Life.

The key to living your best life lies in discerning between the voices and committing to only listen to and follow the guidance of the divine voice of love.❤️Ann

2 Timothy 1:7 (NKJV) For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.


Be unapologetically authentically you…this life needs you just as you are.

Today I was reminded how we just never know whose life we will impact… whose heart we may touch in the most ordinary of circumstances. 

Today I was reminded how important it is to be exactly who we are… unapologetically authentic… because we don’t have much time and this life needs us to use all of our gifts… and to live like there may not be a tomorrow because… there might not. 

Today I joined others in celebrating the life of a fellow creative… a life-lover… a thinker… someone who left this world a better place just by being here. 

Today I was reminded to be grateful for all moments… both big and small… because even the small ones matter. Sometimes it’s the small ones that may mean the most.



One of the biggest problems we have as humans in this life is forgetting who we really are. We are not our bodies, our jobs, or our nationalities… we are not our bank accounts, our races or even our religious affiliations… we are more… so much more.

We have earthly identities that align with the above descriptors… but our true selves are eternal spirits… beings that are borne of love: a love that will never die. This eternal self is who we really are… spirits of love… and within this identity is where we will find out true purpose and our peace. ❤️Ann


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