Not Just A Blonde

We are "Not Just" who we seem to be on this Earthly plane, but so much more. We are ALL children of a loving God who is calling us home to Love. This blog is dedicated to those of us on that journey together…

Do you have needs? Do you know what they are? ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ’œ I’m not even sure what it means to have needs but I do know that recognizing them and unashamedly getting them met is an important component of self-love and validation of self-worth. Why haven’t I ever thought about this before? ๐Ÿ’œ I have had …

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We have the power to change our lives simply by changing ourselves. โœจโค๏ธโœจ Change yourself, change your life. You’ve heard it and it’s true. It’s the changing ourselves that is the hard part. Denial, fear, or just plain lack of insight keep us stuck in patterns of behavior and thoughts that perpetuate our unhappiness.  How …

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Taking care of yourself, nurturing yourself, & assuring your basic needs are met is not a selfish act! The healthier and happier we are the better equipped we are to love others. So go ahead, love yourself! Remember: loving yourself does not mean you place your value above others… but it doesn’t place you below …

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Love is a mindset, love is a choice. Love has nothing to do with the worthiness or the behavior of others and everything to do with our capacity to love. Love has more to do with our ability to express empathy and compassion and faith and hope and kindness and forgiveness and generosity. The ability …

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Most of life’s unhappiness occurs when we forget who we really are. We aren’t our bodies, our clothes, our jobs, nor our circumstances. We are spirits… we are children of a Loving Eternal God! When we make choices that are not in-line with our true identity and purpose we will often find ourselves lost, alone …

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I have come to realize we can never be good enough for this world. We cannot be nice enough, thin enough, not rich enough, not talented enough, not giving enough, not organized enough, not smart enough… so I gave it up. There seems to be a catch… many people have not given up their expectations …

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Jesus tells us to love our neighbor as we love ourselves. But what if we don’t really even like ourselves, let alone love ourselves? It is no wonder we struggle to love our neighbor! Without self-love how can we begin to follow Jesus’ command? Truly, the love we might share with our neighbor is often …

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We can indeed embrace our Christian Faith and our sexuality without conflict or compromise! God created us to live and love in our own unique way… and this uniqueness need not be denied but celebrated! God loves us as we are! He created each of us to love and be loved as we are and …

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I am a woman, a mother, a wife, a sister, a daughter, an Auntie, a friend, a Christian, a worker, a Healthcare Provider, a blonde, a Taurus, an American, a girly girl… and on and on and on…but is that who I truly am? The answer is…no. These words describe me as I appear on …

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