Not Just A Blonde

We are "Not Just" who we seem to be on this Earthly plane, but so much more. We are ALL children of a loving God who is calling us home to Love. This blog is dedicated to those of us on that journey together…

“It is better to be hated for what you are than loved for what you are not.”
~ André Gide

We often hide our authentic selves as we fear judgement and rejection. The world describes what is acceptable, lovable and beautiful and we scramble to hide those parts of us that fall outside of these fickle demands.

We crave the unconditional love and affirmation of our true selves, yet this can never be experienced if we never show our realness and open ourselves up to be fully known!

No one wants to be hated, yet if we are ever hated at least we have been authentically recognized! Unless we risk rejection we will never know the joy of expressing the uniqueness and beauty of our true selves. Unless we risk hate, we may never know what it feels like to be truly loved.



3 thoughts on “It is Better to be Hated!

  1. Eli Pacheco says:

    I can’t say that I’ve perfected this … but to feel even slightly more accepting of yourself can be liberating. Live as your true self. It’s a scary ride at times but I’ve found it’s easy for me to see the beauty in it. When others see it? It’s that much sweeter. Rock on.

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    1. It truly is, isn’t it? I wholeheartedly agree! 😉❤️Ann


    2. Thank you Eli! It is definitely a journey! 😉

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