Not Just A Blonde

We are "Not Just" who we seem to be on this Earthly plane, but so much more. We are ALL children of a loving God who is calling us home to Love. This blog is dedicated to those of us on that journey together…

Isn’t it the sad truth that we are taught so much more by our enemies and those who irritate us than those who are within our inner circles and those who we easily love? From those we dislike we learn patience, forgiveness, humility, acceptance, and most importantly how to truly Love. We learn from those …

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Love. ❤️ It’s why we are here. It is what we have each been called to do above anything else. Love our neighbors, love our enemies, love our family, love our friends… love ourselves.  Who are we to stand in the way of love? 💛 Who are we to dictate how others are called to …

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“It is better to be hated for what you are than loved for what you are not.” ~ André Gide We often hide our authentic selves as we fear judgement and rejection. The world describes what is acceptable, lovable and beautiful and we scramble to hide those parts of us that fall outside of these …

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Energy-drainers and complainers… we cross their paths at school, at work, at the grocery store and even within our own families. You know who they are! They are the toxic people that infiltrate our lives! Toxic folks are the ones that interrupt a peace-filled or positive moment with their negative rants and sulky body-language. They …

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It is crazy how hate can eat us up! Hate robs us of peace and precious time! I’ve been there, trust me and hatred is nowhere you want to linger! I prayed and I prayed to have my hatred taken away! After some serious prayer and meditation it became clear to me I needed to …

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A few weeks ago I shared an on-line rant in A Hateful Situation (Part One) regarding my hatred towards another. I was agitated, frustrated, and exasperated! I was absolutely in the thick of it… consumed by hatred’s raging fire. Every time I thought about or saw this person I would get angry. Very angry. It …

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Everyone knows someone, or two or three someones that are horrible human beings… or just plain difficult to like, not to mention LOVE! They are self-centered, passive aggressive, pushy, insensitive, or just plain “evil”! It seems impossible to tolerate being in their presence without having our skin crawl with the immediate desire to flee, let …

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Man, am I struggling! Even though I know what’s right, I’m having a very time actually following God’s instructions. My spirit is willing but my flesh is super-duper weak! What’s wrong? I’m in the thick of intense dislike of another person. I can’t stand them. I loathe them! They annoy me… frustrate me… infuriate and …

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