Not Just A Blonde

We are "Not Just" who we seem to be on this Earthly plane, but so much more. We are ALL children of a loving God who is calling us home to Love. This blog is dedicated to those of us on that journey together…

Do you have needs? Do you know what they are? πŸ€”πŸ’œ I’m not even sure what it means to have needs but I do know that recognizing them and unashamedly getting them met is an important component of self-love and validation of self-worth. Why haven’t I ever thought about this before? πŸ’œ I have had …

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I believe often that people who judge other people are just distracting (or attempting to distract) their psyche from their own self-judgment, self-loathing, and self-hate. Learning to love, accept and forgive others must first follow learning to love, accept and forgive ourselves.  ❀️Ann #selflove #judgingothers #judgingourselves #love

Taking selfies does not make you conceited, vain, self-absorbed, superficial, shallow, any more than not taking selfies makes you gracious, thoughtful, selfless, or a saint. Just say no to selfie shame! (Yes, it’s a thing. Another way that some folks like to put other folks down just to make themselves feel superior).  Share you selfies …

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By loving yourself and valuing yourself you open yourself up to the life you were created to live. You must value yourself enough to take note of your gifts and your strengths, to truly look at your good. It is only after appreciating what you have that you can offer it unto the world. This …

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There is something quite freeing when we let go of the need to always be liked. Often if we are not liked it has more to do with the other person than anything we have done. Are we always going to act perfect and never do anything that upsets another? Absolutely not! But, everyone is …

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