Not Just A Blonde

We are "Not Just" who we seem to be on this Earthly plane, but so much more. We are ALL children of a loving God who is calling us home to Love. This blog is dedicated to those of us on that journey together…

When people treat you poorly and you wonder what to do: choose love. Love forgives, love is patient, love is kind. Love is humble and hopeful. When people treat you poorly it’s most often not about you but it is about their fears, their weaknesses and their darkness. The last thing love does is take …

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We can indeed embrace our Christian Faith and our sexuality without conflict or compromise! God created us to live and love in our own unique way… and this uniqueness need not be denied but celebrated! God loves us as we are! He created each of us to love and be loved as we are and …

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Wether or not being gay is a sin is completely irrelevant! We could debate all day whether or not being gay is a sin. Whether or not it is a sin does not justify why many Christians treat those who identify as LGBT like they are evil-doers deserving of Hell! Many Christians are hypocritically treating …

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No matter how far you’ve gone down the wrong road, it’s never too late to turn around! Stop for a moment and look around… is this the place God desires for you to be? You will know in your heart if you have strayed off the path God has laid out for you! Do not …

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Recently, after a fairly impassioned pro-gay rights rant I was asked by my husband: “You’re not gay, so why do you care?” He asked this not in a jerky-judgmental way, but in a I-don’t-know-why-you’re-so-worked-up kinda way. After all, I’m a legally married, heterosexual, middle-age, middle-class, mom. I live the American tradition. I teach Sunday School. …

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Sin isn’t about breaking the rules, it’s about playing the wrong game. With sin, you will never truly win. When you choose sin over Spirit you choose darkness over Light. Sin separates us from God and from feeling His Love. God never stops loving His Creation, however in sin we are unable to feel His …

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