Not Just A Blonde

We are "Not Just" who we seem to be on this Earthly plane, but so much more. We are ALL children of a loving God who is calling us home to Love. This blog is dedicated to those of us on that journey together…

Do you have needs? Do you know what they are? πŸ€”πŸ’œ I’m not even sure what it means to have needs but I do know that recognizing them and unashamedly getting them met is an important component of self-love and validation of self-worth. Why haven’t I ever thought about this before? πŸ’œ I have had …

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What you look for you will find. It all depends on what you are looking for. If you are looking to find a reason to be angry you will find it. If you are looking for a reason to be sad, you will find this as well.  The good news is if you focus your …

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  God’s Peace and Joy are ours no matter what is going on externally. No one can take away what is rightfully ours unless we give it away. Let go of the need to have events or people a certain way before you can claim your happiness and your peace. Know God is with us through …

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Jesus tells us to love our neighbor as we love ourselves. But what if we don’t really even like ourselves, let alone love ourselves? It is no wonder we struggle to love our neighbor! Without self-love how can we begin to follow Jesus’ command? Truly, the love we might share with our neighbor is often …

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How often are you truly present with another? Eyes locked, listening, focusing on the words said without consideration of what you want to say in response? How often do you sit attentively with another? How often do you gaze upon another’s visage, studying their features and facial expressions? How often do you choose to be …

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Being a writer of the Spirit, my blog posts are often about the challenges of relating to and loving other people. These challenges are mine… yet at times perhaps you can relate to me as well! In relating we are reminded that we are not the only ones struggling in this life thing… we are …

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We carry our guilt on our backs…the burden of this heavy load growing heavier and heavier as our transgressions accumulate on life’s journey. We’ve all messed up, made mistakes big & small, caused pain or what the “churchy” people call sinned, and we often use these mistakes as weapons to continue to perpetuate pain. We …

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We carry our guilt on our backs…the burden of this heavy load growing heavier and heavier as our transgressions accumulate on life’s journey. We’ve all messed up, made mistakes big & small, caused pain or what the “churchy” people call sinned, and we often use these mistakes as weapons to continue to perpetuate pain. We …

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