Not Just A Blonde

We are "Not Just" who we seem to be on this Earthly plane, but so much more. We are ALL children of a loving God who is calling us home to Love. This blog is dedicated to those of us on that journey together…

Shhhhh, already! Quiet that voice that hates you… you know, the one that goes on (and on, and on…) about how much you suck. The one that rubs into your face your imperfections, and minimizes your value and worth. The one that tells lies just because it can.  Silence that voice… tell it firmly to …

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Free yourself to be yourself! I’m in a place where I am trying to embrace my uniqueness. I’m letting go of the need to be understood or liked.  There is a freedom with this. A freedom that allows me to dance to my own rhythm and find my own special place in this big beautiful …

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Love. โค๏ธ It’s why we are here. It is what we have each been called to do above anything else. Love our neighbors, love our enemies, love our family, love our friends… love ourselves.  Who are we to stand in the way of love? ๐Ÿ’› Who are we to dictate how others are called to …

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There is something quite freeing when we let go of the need to always be liked. Often if we are not liked it has more to do with the other person than anything we have done. Are we always going to act perfect and never do anything that upsets another? Absolutely not! But, everyone is …

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I have come to realize we can never be good enough for this world. We cannot be nice enough, thin enough, not rich enough, not talented enough, not giving enough, not organized enough, not smart enough… so I gave it up. There seems to be a catch… many people have not given up their expectations …

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The quest for perfection is filled with folly. We can only do our best, and even with our earnest efforts we are guaranteed to fall short! We should never be ashamed of our imperfections, as if they define us or predict our value. Not one of us is perfect, nor can we ever be! Through …

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We can indeed embrace our Christian Faith and our sexuality without conflict or compromise! God created us to live and love in our own unique way… and this uniqueness need not be denied but celebrated! God loves us as we are! He created each of us to love and be loved as we are and …

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Wether or not being gay is a sin is completely irrelevant! We could debate all day whether or not being gay is a sin. Whether or not it is a sin does not justify why many Christians treat those who identify as LGBT like they are evil-doers deserving of Hell! Many Christians are hypocritically treating …

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Are you frustrated by life? Do you wish other folks were less annoying, rude, obnoxious or disappointing? Do you spend time dreaming about being somewhere else other than where you are right now? Do you wish at times you were someone else? If so, you are FAR from alone! In fact feeling malcontent is such …

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