We all get fearful and discouraged sometimes. It is natural to pull into ourselves and withdraw a bit as we protect our hearts and heal our wounds. Yet, we must always remember the source of true healing comes from a Source beyond our self-limiting illusions. When things get you down it is indeed best to …
What does it mean to ‘please God’? Does it mean to be giving? Patient? Kind? Pleasing God is not just about giving, because many people give with expectations of something in return. This does not please God. Pleasing God is not just about Patience. Many murderers are patient as they plot and wait for the …
Love is a mindset, love is a choice. Love has nothing to do with the worthiness or the behavior of others and everything to do with our capacity to love. Love has more to do with our ability to express empathy and compassion and faith and hope and kindness and forgiveness and generosity. The ability …
There is something quite freeing when we let go of the need to always be liked. Often if we are not liked it has more to do with the other person than anything we have done. Are we always going to act perfect and never do anything that upsets another? Absolutely not! But, everyone is …
Most of life’s unhappiness occurs when we forget who we really are. We aren’t our bodies, our clothes, our jobs, nor our circumstances. We are spirits… we are children of a Loving Eternal God! When we make choices that are not in-line with our true identity and purpose we will often find ourselves lost, alone …
Relationships are often where darkness enters into our reality. This darkness will be replaced by the light of love if we are open to learning the lessons these relationships offer us. It is within these relationships we are confronted with our weaknesses and where we are encouraged to grow. Relationships are the greatest classrooms of …
The time we spend resting is the time we spend healing and recovering from life. We need this time to be healthy and whole. We often care for others who are tired, who are sick and who are weak…. yet we feel guilty taking care of ourselves. Resting is the loving thing to do! We …
Is it true I gain from the status quo? Is there more for me when there is less for you? Is it true not all can enjoy success? For me to win you must lose? Is it true that I am part of a privileged few? Do I ignore your needs when I consume my …
Have you ever wondered why some folks have spiritual experiences and yet others struggle to even maintain their faith? Faith in a loving God is not an easy thing, especially for those who crave to know God is truly with them in their struggles and in the trenches of this life! Why is it that …
I have come to realize we can never be good enough for this world. We cannot be nice enough, thin enough, not rich enough, not talented enough, not giving enough, not organized enough, not smart enough… so I gave it up. There seems to be a catch… many people have not given up their expectations …
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