Not Just A Blonde

We are "Not Just" who we seem to be on this Earthly plane, but so much more. We are ALL children of a loving God who is calling us home to Love. This blog is dedicated to those of us on that journey together…

Do you have needs? Do you know what they are? ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ’œ I’m not even sure what it means to have needs but I do know that recognizing them and unashamedly getting them met is an important component of self-love and validation of self-worth. Why haven’t I ever thought about this before? ๐Ÿ’œ I have had …

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It’s easy to be happy when everyone around you is happy. It takes great strength and resolve to maintain happiness when surrounded by sadness and negativity. If we depend on others to bring it to us we will find ourselves at the whim of others moods and emotions. Happiness is best found from within.  Happiness …

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Free yourself to be yourself! I’m in a place where I am trying to embrace my uniqueness. I’m letting go of the need to be understood or liked.  There is a freedom with this. A freedom that allows me to dance to my own rhythm and find my own special place in this big beautiful …

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What you look for you will find. It all depends on what you are looking for. If you are looking to find a reason to be angry you will find it. If you are looking for a reason to be sad, you will find this as well.  The good news is if you focus your …

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Whatever you focus your energy on WILL grow, so focus your thoughts, energies, gifts, resources, time and attention on Love. โค๏ธAnn Mathew 6:21-23 (NLT) ~ Wherever your treasure is, there the desires of your heart will also be. โ€œYour eye is a lamp that provides light for your body. When your eye is good, your …

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The most enlightened of persons has empathy and compassion for her spouse or life partner. She should nurture, care for and love her spouse yet also be aware that her spouse’s soul is on his own journey and has his own purpose. Sometimes the journey includes watching our spouse make choices that are painful or unwise. …

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