Not Just A Blonde

We are "Not Just" who we seem to be on this Earthly plane, but so much more. We are ALL children of a loving God who is calling us home to Love. This blog is dedicated to those of us on that journey together…

Love is a mindset, love is a choice. Love has nothing to do with the worthiness or the behavior of others and everything to do with our capacity to love. Love has more to do with our ability to express empathy and compassion and faith and hope and kindness and forgiveness and generosity. The ability …

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Have you ever wondered why some folks have spiritual experiences and yet others struggle to even maintain their faith? Faith in a loving God is not an easy thing, especially for those who crave to know God is truly with them in their struggles and in the trenches of this life! Why is it that …

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I have come to realize we can never be good enough for this world. We cannot be nice enough, thin enough, not rich enough, not talented enough, not giving enough, not organized enough, not smart enough… so I gave it up. There seems to be a catch… many people have not given up their expectations …

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When we come closer to love we come closer to God and to all that He wills for us. I firmly believe we each are here in this life to learn to love. Some are challenged by trying to love others, some are challenged to learn to love themselves. Love is the key to the …

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So many of us struggle silently amidst an outwardly seemingly perfect life. We smile, we laugh yet our hearts are quietly breaking. How is it that we don’t fall apart? It’s a miracle most days to make it to the end without giving up. Many days it’s amazing we don’t quit the game all together. …

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Jesus tells us to love our neighbor as we love ourselves. But what if we don’t really even like ourselves, let alone love ourselves? It is no wonder we struggle to love our neighbor! Without self-love how can we begin to follow Jesus’ command? Truly, the love we might share with our neighbor is often …

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If we look towards God we will be saved from the distractions of the world and the evil that wants to consume us. When we turn towards God we see God’s arms are open and ready to embrace us with total acceptance and love! We are redeemed by the transformative power of God. God is …

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Love is the eternal ideal. To move towards Love is to walk on our purpose’s path. Love’s perfection may not ever be achieved in this life yet it continues to be the ideal focus of our attentions. Pure and perfect Love is full of light and life and truth and all good things. We all …

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Who understands pain more than those who have been injured? Who understands suffering better than those who have been traumatized? It is often through our experiences that we develop compassion for others as they struggle on life’s path. Pain brings with it the gift of insight and knowing the needs of those who suffer or …

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