Not Just A Blonde

We are "Not Just" who we seem to be on this Earthly plane, but so much more. We are ALL children of a loving God who is calling us home to Love. This blog is dedicated to those of us on that journey together…

I believe often that people who judge other people are just distracting (or attempting to distract) their psyche from their own self-judgment, self-loathing, and self-hate. Learning to love, accept and forgive others must first follow learning to love, accept and forgive ourselves. 


#selflove #judgingothers #judgingourselves #love


4 thoughts on “Self-love Comes First

  1. BJF says:

    Well I’d like to say here and now that I judge the other side based on my naivete and willingness to ignore some of (not all) what they were saying was wrong. I’m still working on the rest of the situation. I doubt it will be reciprocated, but it is what it is.

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    1. It is best to not have expectations! 😉

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      1. BJF says:

        I have low expectations of life in general, so…


  2. jesuswithoutbaggage says:

    Blonde, you are absolutely right! We MUST love ourselves appropriately in order to love others appropriately.

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