Not Just A Blonde

We are "Not Just" who we seem to be on this Earthly plane, but so much more. We are ALL children of a loving God who is calling us home to Love. This blog is dedicated to those of us on that journey together…

If someone tells you that you made them happier than they have ever been… don’t be surprised if when they become unhappy you get all the blame. 🙄😩🤭🥴😢😮 We should not be held responsible for anyone else’s happiness but our own. Can we contribute? Yes, but only as much as it feels balanced, right and …

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Love is an action word and without action love dies a tragic death.

Love says:
“Your happiness and well-being are important to me.
I do things from time-to-time just for this reason, with no strings attached.
I do not do these things because I have to but because I truly want to.

I somehow missed the memo regarding love and giving. Did you get it? If so, I’d love to know what age you were when it arrived! I always have received great joy in giving… especially to those I love. Learning quite clearly how much better it is to give than to receive I would find …

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Do you have needs? Do you know what they are? 🤔💜 I’m not even sure what it means to have needs but I do know that recognizing them and unashamedly getting them met is an important component of self-love and validation of self-worth. Why haven’t I ever thought about this before? 💜 I have had …

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