Not Just A Blonde

We are "Not Just" who we seem to be on this Earthly plane, but so much more. We are ALL children of a loving God who is calling us home to Love. This blog is dedicated to those of us on that journey together…

How do we expect anyone else to respect our boundaries if we don’t respect ourselves?! Self-love and self-respect are the first step in learning to set healthy and loving boundaries with others. The second thing we must do is stop pretending that everything is all right, when it’s not! The third thing is to tell …

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It was a beautiful sky tonight filled with colors and clouds that stirred my heart and soothed my soul. I paused and took it in… knowing despite its perfection that it would change and the colors would fade away into darkness. That’s the thing with the sky… and with life, it’s always moving, changing. Life’s …

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The most enlightened of persons has empathy and compassion for her spouse or life partner. She should nurture, care for and love her spouse yet also be aware that her spouse’s soul is on his own journey and has his own purpose. Sometimes the journey includes watching our spouse make choices that are painful or unwise. …

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What are you holding on to? God is waiting for you to just let go… All things that have meaning will never leave you so holding onto them isn’t necessary. Clinging to those things wastes energy that could be used for greater things… things that that bring fulfillment and joy! Let go of that which …

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