Not Just A Blonde

We are "Not Just" who we seem to be on this Earthly plane, but so much more. We are ALL children of a loving God who is calling us home to Love. This blog is dedicated to those of us on that journey together…

If someone tells you that you made them happier than they have ever been… don’t be surprised if when they become unhappy you get all the blame. 🙄😩🤭🥴😢😮 We should not be held responsible for anyone else’s happiness but our own. Can we contribute? Yes, but only as much as it feels balanced, right and …

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In this moment I send Gratitude into the Universe as I let go of the need for others to accept me, like me and approve of all that I say or do. The striving for everyone to like me is pointless! Unless I give away or deny parts of myself on a daily basis I …

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Love is ever-present in our lives. Many times we believe we are lost and alone in the darkness of our circumstances yet we never are. We only need to open our eyes and our hearts to see the love that is there. The love that can lead us through our troubled times may not look …

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We all get fearful and discouraged sometimes. It is natural to pull into ourselves and withdraw a bit as we protect our hearts and heal our wounds. Yet, we must always remember the source of true healing comes from a Source beyond our self-limiting illusions. When things get you down it is indeed best to …

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   We all have voices in our head… some of the voices tell us lies… and yet another speaks through truth and with love. I don’t need to tell you which voices lead to death… and which one leads us to Life. The key to living your best life lies in discerning between the voices …

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We don’t need to fight the darkness, our lives are transformed when we let in the Light. Just pray and then sit quiet and listen to God’s voice as he will assuredly speak to you. He will shine His light on your path and show you the way. There is no need to fight… relax in …

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God, help me see what stuff is mine, see what stuff is theirs and to help me to carry my own stuff. Amen. Helping someone with their stuff is good as long as we remember it is their stuff. I’m not talking material needs here, I’m talking Spiritual and Emotional. We can be empathetic without …

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There is great power in sharing our feelings and fears with others, those outside of ourselves. Somehow when our fears are brought outside of us we can see them for what they are: irrational, unlikely to come to pass, unreasonable, and unworthy of fearing. Sharing our fear with others brings it out of darkness and …

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Fear is a funny thing… it seems SO real and yet it is not a ‘thing’ at all. Fear gets its power from its deception… as it has no form it can come and go without rationality or reason. It can slip in and out of our consciousness without our awareness. Like a thief in …

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