Not Just A Blonde

We are "Not Just" who we seem to be on this Earthly plane, but so much more. We are ALL children of a loving God who is calling us home to Love. This blog is dedicated to those of us on that journey together…

Isn’t it the sad truth that we are taught so much more by our enemies and those who irritate us than those who are within our inner circles and those who we easily love? From those we dislike we learn patience, forgiveness, humility, acceptance, and most importantly how to truly Love. We learn from those …

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What you look for you will find. It all depends on what you are looking for. If you are looking to find a reason to be angry you will find it. If you are looking for a reason to be sad, you will find this as well.  The good news is if you focus your …

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God, help me see what stuff is mine, see what stuff is theirs and to help me to carry my own stuff. Amen. Helping someone with their stuff is good as long as we remember it is their stuff. I’m not talking material needs here, I’m talking Spiritual and Emotional. We can be empathetic without …

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The wind insults me. How could it continue to blow? It’s as if the air isn’t aware that everything is different now!  Stop wind! Stop! Hasn’t God told you he messed this up? Hasn’t He asked you to quiet down while He thinks?  How could God have gotten this so wrong? Wind, don’t answer me …

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Sometimes things happen in this life and it’s like the rug is pulled out from underneath us. I don’t understand why God allows for tragedy… and I’m not sure any “reason” uttered right now could even bring peace in this moment.  Just over a year ago my friend married the man of her dreams… and …

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What are you holding on to? God is waiting for you to just let go… All things that have meaning will never leave you so holding onto them isn’t necessary. Clinging to those things wastes energy that could be used for greater things… things that that bring fulfillment and joy! Let go of that which …

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In the craziness of this life it is easy to get distracted and disturbed. There are many energies tugging at our attention and begging us to give them our peace. We get carried away by life’s current and fight against those unseen forces that seem to be pushing us along against our will.  Where is …

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I’ve come to realize by making healthy choices and directly extending myself love, patience, forgiveness and compassion I can become the me as I was intended to be! Without my health, excess weight and food:drink cravings as distractions I can pursue my purpose and my dreams with confidence and without distractions! Big lessons I’m learning …

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4 days without processed sugar, artificial sweeteners or corn syrup. Today was the most difficult… but I never questioned my resolve to quit. The harder it is, the more I realize what a grip sugar has on me! Oh, how I wish I didn’t miss the sweetness so much!  Today I did eat some fruit, …

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  Pain propels us towards spiritual and personal growth. Who is willing to make a change if they are comfortable? It is our discomfort and pain that encourage us and even at times force us to make changes, take risks and grow! Pain is not the enemy, complacency is. Welcome the pains in your life as …

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