Not Just A Blonde

We are "Not Just" who we seem to be on this Earthly plane, but so much more. We are ALL children of a loving God who is calling us home to Love. This blog is dedicated to those of us on that journey together…

Do you have needs? Do you know what they are? ๐Ÿค”๐Ÿ’œ I’m not even sure what it means to have needs but I do know that recognizing them and unashamedly getting them met is an important component of self-love and validation of self-worth. Why haven’t I ever thought about this before? ๐Ÿ’œ I have had …

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You can’t see how far you’ve come if you aren’t aware of where you’ve started. โœจโœจ Sometimes you gotta sit down in the middle of your mess and look around. I mean really take it all in. Get your camera and take pictures.๐Ÿ“ธ Get some paper and take notes. ๐Ÿ“  Find a canvas and paint …

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It’s easy to be happy when everyone around you is happy. It takes great strength and resolve to maintain happiness when surrounded by sadness and negativity. If we depend on others to bring it to us we will find ourselves at the whim of others moods and emotions. Happiness is best found from within.  Happiness …

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Shhhhh, already! Quiet that voice that hates you… you know, the one that goes on (and on, and on…) about how much you suck. The one that rubs into your face your imperfections, and minimizes your value and worth. The one that tells lies just because it can.  Silence that voice… tell it firmly to …

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Love is ever-present in our lives. Many times we believe we are lost and alone in the darkness of our circumstances yet we never are. We only need to open our eyes and our hearts to see the love that is there. The love that can lead us through our troubled times may not look …

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We all get fearful and discouraged sometimes. It is natural to pull into ourselves and withdraw a bit as we protect our hearts and heal our wounds. Yet, we must always remember the source of true healing comes from a Source beyond our self-limiting illusions. When things get you down it is indeed best to …

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We don’t need to fight the darkness, our lives are transformed when we let in the Light. Just pray and then sit quiet and listen to God’s voice as he will assuredly speak to you. He will shine His light on your path and show you the way. There is no need to fight… relax in …

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By loving yourself and valuing yourself you open yourself up to the life you were created to live. You must value yourself enough to take note of your gifts and your strengths, to truly look at your good. It is only after appreciating what you have that you can offer it unto the world. This …

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Many search for Truth, but where can Truth be found? The Truth can be found within each of us. The Truth is there… we just may not know it. Once we become aware of Truth we must learn to listen to It. Yes, we must be willing to let go of the noisy influence of …

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The most enlightened of persons has empathy and compassion for her spouse or life partner. She should nurture, care for and love her spouse yet also be aware that her spouse’s soul is on his own journey and has his own purpose. Sometimes the journey includes watching our spouse make choices that are painful or unwise. …

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