Not Just A Blonde

We are "Not Just" who we seem to be on this Earthly plane, but so much more. We are ALL children of a loving God who is calling us home to Love. This blog is dedicated to those of us on that journey together…

We can indeed embrace our Christian Faith and our sexuality without conflict or compromise! God created us to live and love in our own unique way… and this uniqueness need not be denied but celebrated! God loves us as we are! He created each of us to love and be loved as we are and …

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God is Love, yet how does anyone begin to describe what Love is? Love itself is a bit ambiguous and difficult to fully understand. In the English language “Love” has many different meanings and flavors depending on the context of it’s use. There is the love of passion and obsession, the love of friendship and …

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I am not consistently witty nor well-spoken. I struggle with plucking out the best words to use to get my thoughts across in conversation and on the computer screen. Instead, I am stuck with writing things the best I can to produce an essay or a blog post that expresses my thoughts good-enough. I am …

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We weren’t created to be self-sufficient but to need each-other. We each need love. Love is something that is meant to be shared with each-other. This need is something we each have in common and should never bring us shame. Love is Divine energy. Love is a living moving thing! Love is always going somewhere. …

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When life is difficult and nothing seems to be going your way, just turn it over to the One who can handle anything and everything. God has a plan for your life and wants the best for you at all times. When you feel down or at the end of your rope, let go and …

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We each lead lives filled with problems. Many of the most painful ones are internal. We live our lives suffering from all kinds of these inner hurts including: insecurity, loneliness, anger, bitterness, resentment, fear, and sadness. We do some crazy things to try and solve these inner problems! We drink, we shop, we eat, we …

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One cannot change another person’s mind. That should never be our goal. Our goal should be just to share our thoughts, ideas and beliefs… and leave the rest alone. We must remember that each of us wrestle with our own ideas, values and beliefs… and the struggle to find truth is ours alone! Although a …

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One of the greatest gifts you can EVER give is to be someone’s “Safe Place”. Be the person that will always: Love not judge, Encourage not criticize, Forgive not condemn, Listen not Preach, Empathize not sympathize. If you have nothing material to give to another this Holiday Season or if those that you care about …

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