Not Just A Blonde

We are "Not Just" who we seem to be on this Earthly plane, but so much more. We are ALL children of a loving God who is calling us home to Love. This blog is dedicated to those of us on that journey together…

If someone tells you that you made them happier than they have ever been… don’t be surprised if when they become unhappy you get all the blame. 🙄😩🤭🥴😢😮 We should not be held responsible for anyone else’s happiness but our own. Can we contribute? Yes, but only as much as it feels balanced, right and …

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God is Love, yet how does anyone begin to describe what Love is? Love itself is a bit ambiguous and difficult to fully understand. In the English language “Love” has many different meanings and flavors depending on the context of it’s use. There is the love of passion and obsession, the love of friendship and …

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Wether or not being gay is a sin is completely irrelevant! We could debate all day whether or not being gay is a sin. Whether or not it is a sin does not justify why many Christians treat those who identify as LGBT like they are evil-doers deserving of Hell! Many Christians are hypocritically treating …

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I cringe at the thought of being called religious. Why? Because of all that word has come to represent. The word religious describes so many who have used their spiritual beliefs to separate themselves from others. These folks use religion as an excuse to justify their judgement and hate against their neighbors. Sometimes these folks …

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When life is difficult and nothing seems to be going your way, just turn it over to the One who can handle anything and everything. God has a plan for your life and wants the best for you at all times. When you feel down or at the end of your rope, let go and …

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I’ve been reading Michael A. Singer’s Best Selling Book “The Untethered Soul”. I have felt very inspired by some of the insights he has shared, including this one: You are not the voice in your head. You are the one listening to that voice. This insight may seem insignificant or perhaps confusing to some, yet …

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One cannot change another person’s mind. That should never be our goal. Our goal should be just to share our thoughts, ideas and beliefs… and leave the rest alone. We must remember that each of us wrestle with our own ideas, values and beliefs… and the struggle to find truth is ours alone! Although a …

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Truth is a gift. When it is offered to us from another we ought truly appreciate it’s value. Truth is a treasure unlike any other and can lead us towards enlightenment and love or be cast aside as we choose the path of darkness and distraction. Yes, truth often can illuminate things and is the …

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One of the greatest gifts you can EVER give is to be someone’s “Safe Place”. Be the person that will always: Love not judge, Encourage not criticize, Forgive not condemn, Listen not Preach, Empathize not sympathize. If you have nothing material to give to another this Holiday Season or if those that you care about …

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