Not Just A Blonde

We are "Not Just" who we seem to be on this Earthly plane, but so much more. We are ALL children of a loving God who is calling us home to Love. This blog is dedicated to those of us on that journey together…

We have the power to change our lives simply by changing ourselves. ✨❤️✨

Change yourself, change your life. You’ve heard it and it’s true. It’s the changing ourselves that is the hard part. Denial, fear, or just plain lack of insight keep us stuck in patterns of behavior and thoughts that perpetuate our unhappiness. 
How easy it is to blame others for our pain and our suffering! This is not to say that other’s negative behaviors don’t affect us, only that WE are responsible for being a part of the dynamic that allowed for it to be. We are also just as responsible for our reaction. 

This is where the power to change comes in! When we are able to identify and then change in ourselves the things that we are doing (or not doing) that keep us stuck, that is when our life is transformed. By focusing our energy on ourselves we will begin to experience the relationships and the life that we dream of! 

We must not wait or depend on anyone else to begin living a better life. Often nothing will ever change… until we do. 

#change ✨ 😉💖

3 thoughts on “The Power to Change ✨

  1. Mark Myers says:

    I truly believe that. Well put.

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    1. Thank you Mark. It’s something I really learned the power of during these past few months! I think it will be something I will have to be reminded of from time to time as well.😉


  2. BJF says:

    This reminds me of some lyrics of a song from the Tony Award winning Broadway show Kinky Boots called ‘Just Be’….

    Alright, now we’ve all heard of the 12 step program, have we not?
    Yes, but what you can do in 12, I want you to know that we all can do in 6 now, and it goes like this:

    One: Pursue the truth
    Two: Learn something new
    Three: Accept yourself and you’ll accept others too!
    Four: Let love shine
    Five: Let pride be your guide
    Six: Change the world when you change your mind!
    Just be. Who you wanna be.
    Never let them tell you who you ought to be.
    Just be. With dignity.
    Celebrate your life triumphantly.

    I think #6 in that list speaks to your thoughts in this entry. ❤

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